Why B#@%!es Get the Good Men

Why B#@%!es Get the Good Men

What can good women can learn from b#@%!es? There is some stuff!

To understand this, first we must understand the nature of a long-term relationship between a man and a woman. Think about the reality of it—in the typical scenario. The woman ends up doing all the laundry and cleaning, the cooking, is there for the man to have sex with, has and is the main one to raise the man’s children, and these days usually works on top of it all. The man gets his laundry and floors cleaned, his food made, sex, children, and part of the expenses paid.

What does the man give? Maybe he has to do a little more house maintenance due to needing a larger home than he would need if he were single. Whether the woman is paying for part or none of the expenses, the guy often needs to spend a portion of his paycheck on family affairs. So, the guy has to do a bit of house maintenance and spend a part of his income on her and kids.

This is where the key to finding a great guy lies…

A great guy is happy to spend money on his woman, afterall that is one of the primary ways that he contributes. A great guy is happy to help with things like home maintenance. A great guy is also eager to please his woman in general, and he is happy to express that she is the greatest and most beautiful woman to him. These are some of the ways he contributes the most, and he is happy to do them.

Just like as a good woman, we are happy to clean his underwear, scrub the floors, make him food, please him sexually, rear his children, etc.

This is the nature of what a good guy does and what a good woman does.

And we come to where bitches have the advantage

Imagine a narcissistic B%*&@. Do you think for a second she stays around with a guy who does not happily pay for things for her and express to her that she is the greatest woman? NOT FOR A SECOND.

Bitches don’t waste their time with men who are jerks or who are only kinda interested. Since they don’t waste their time, they are able to get with a good man faster and easier!

The lesson

As good women, we do tend to put up with men who are not acting the way they really should. Because we are naturally understanding and try to accommodate others. We make excuses for a guy, give him time to work it out, give him more chances, etc. None of which we should do.

If a guy’s not eager and excited to please you, feeling and expressing to you that you are the greatest, gushing over you, happy to pay for things for you, etc., don’t bother with him! Forget the jerks or those only half in it.

Men reap tons of rewards just from being with a woman, so they usually stay with her even if their feelings are weak. But the truth shows when you know what to look for about a man. Even a truly horrible, user, con of a man isn’t going to be able to fake all these qualities I’m telling you to look for.

When you realize how all this works, it gives you so much power. You must know how men work and the reality of men/women relationships, or you can easily be used, steamrolled, or just end up not being with someone who truly loves you. Get better at recognizing all the signs!

Love, Janelle

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